Why are you so lost in your thoughts? -he said-

That is not me you are looking at. Sometimes we just see our reflection in others -she answered-

Losing is not an easy task. It helps us to see how valuable some things and some people are. It helps us to prioritize. To define new objectives and to mature some dimensions of our souls. It helps us to understand the deep meanings that we many times forget.

Losing is itself a storm and a glory. We can only intensify the encounter with our true self after losing. We can only transform our cells after we have lost. Regeneration is indeed a heavy process. It hurts more than anything else. Every memory, every second you spend thinking about the past becomes a true torture.

After dealing with the acceptance of reality one has to deal with forgiveness. It is very idiotic to behave as arrogants and believe we did everything well. It is indeed more idiotic not to forgive ourselves. But some people just need some time to heal. Some people just need to review their experience and get some soul-feedback in order to understand and to receive a true life changing gift. We all need this, in order to find our true path in life.

Some relationships, more than true happy relationships, more than true love, are karma. Our souls somehow force ourselves to go back to those things we haven’t solved. How is it possible to meet in one life time people that went through similar experiences? Two totally different people, that had totally different lives, but have an emotional luggage so similar to ours? It is actually our 200 kilos of emotional luggage that attract these people to us, so we can go through the experiences we need to live, so we can evolve. More interesting is the fact that some of these relationships show us sides of our lives that we haven’t seen before. Some of these relationships show us ugly things that we dislike, like behaviors, feelings, emotions and even simple eye-to-eye looks. But at the same time, they help us to discover the beauty where we haven’t seen it before. They show us how impressive and fantastic the world can be and how much we are losing, just because we are not aware or not brave enough to let go our souls and relax ourselves.

Destruction and pain are a channel that can unveil the so-called ‘psychic powers’ we are hiding. But we will not truly understand and develop those powers until we are totally aware of ourselves. It is not possible to be really happy with someone unless we have already cleaned our souls from that emotional luggage. It is not possible to be happy, if we are still carrying with us all those bad memories, all the times we hurt or were hurt and had to involve so much suffering. In other words, it is not possible to be happy with someone if we are not first happy with ourselves, our lives, our past and our souls. Until we just let go and learn how to play.